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Wednesday, November 12, 2014

One of the most comprehensive elements about a sensual relationship that revolves around the concept of submission and dominance tends to be the initial discomfort that the participants may feel. This discomfort or hesitation is present in most of the people as they are not able to break through the shell on the level of inception.
In order to make the act a mesmerising one, it is important that the partners stand up for themselves. This issue may be present in both the partners or may affect any one of them. Gaining a head-start completely depends on the mindset of the individual. What we people need to realize is the fact that kinky desires tend to be quite natural and can be present in almost anyone out there. There isn’t anything unusual about it and therefore being open about it is not an issue at all.
Having a specific fantasy but not being able to talk about it
Often people have a very specific fantasy in their mind but hesitate about speaking of it. It is quite natural and especially for the first timers. To render comfort, it would be helpful to know that the conception of vanilla sex is rather out-dated in the present age.
People are more reluctant on trying out something different which would help them to elude the same old stuff during a sensual encounter. Being social beings we are meant to communicate and relay our feelings to the partner.
From the point of view of a partner, we also expect to be trusted and being communicated with. People have sensual desires and several fantasies which often are pretty amazing. According to research, the human species is rather more interested towards sexual evolution which makes them think out of the box.
Till date, porn has been one of the major ways by virtue of which people have been gaining a hold of such fantasies. In the real world however, we consider porn fantasising as taboo. It is important that we break these limits and freely engage in exploring our sexuality.
The fear of rejection
One of the other major reasons as to why partners generally stay bound to limits is the fear of rejection. What they fail to realize is the fact that the problem related to rejection is only a mirage and generally non-existent. The person would hesitate fearing the fact that they might inflict a wrong image in the mind of their partners, but the reality is far from what we see.
While engaging in any form of a sexual act, we expect to catch a glimpse of the inner thoughts within our partners. We are always reluctant on being able to see what they are from the inside. People have confessed to the fact that they appreciate this quotient of trust ahead of any discomfort. Such fantasies can make a sensual act rather pleasing and more satisfying. If the person is willing to open up their heart and speak with contention, then the emotional ecstasy during a sexual event transcends to a completely new level.    

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Not the typical fantasies surrounding woman
The sexual regime of a man is rather fascinating. There is absolutely no assurance of the fact as to what the man would want at a certain point. People from different backgrounds have had the most unusual fantasies, some being completely out of this world.
All throughout these days, we have been dealing with a number of individuals that hail from various backgrounds. To be fair enough one would have the experience of interacting with a rather very unusual set of people. To some these experiences might be quite new and fascinating, but when taken into account from an integral point of view, we would come to know that these people are actually lost.
Men that are unsure of what they want
It may be quite common for a certain set of men to have very little knowledge of what exactly they are looking forward to. They are at times unsure of what they want, or rather what their fantasy is. These people are essentially blank, but not retarded.
It is quite common for men to go blank in terms of their sexual desires. It does not mean that they have absolutely no idea whatsoever of what they are doing, but in reality it is a conflict within the mind. These people that I have been dealing with have an internal conflict. The conflict is about expressing and exploring the sexuality. The reason why most of us tend to be sure of what we desire is because we explore and dare to go beyond the conventional realms.
There have been instances where I have had to take a number of phone calls from various prospective clients. I would actually address this as an odd pleasure since it allowed me to catch a glimpse of a completely new mindset. I realized that people at times can be quite lost. These people are actually mostly loners that have been debarred from the essential feeling of being loved. Some also tend to be loners by choice but we will not be getting to that.
Well then, how do we interact with them?
The case in here with respect to such men is actually both funny and sensitive. At such times we need to take the initiative and help them realize what they are looking for. Subconsciously we are actually aware of what we want, but we fail to realize or rather interpret it consciously.
Typically we would be asking the clients what they want, like the colour of skin, stature of the individual or if they have any other preferences. Asking these people about their fantasies isn’t a nice option since it only makes them feel more uncomfortable. The best way to approach such people would be through physical descriptions. Asking these people about the physical needs would actually shed some light on what they need.
These kinds of people are actually pretty common in the modern age. Over the period of time, such numbers have been steadily on the rise and with each passing day I have been learning more about the human nature, which in a way is pretty interesting.  

Monday, April 14, 2014

In terms of sexual acts, many partners may not actually be able to say so, but in reality they have an indefinite liking towards being dominated. In terms of a sexual relationship, it is pretty common for people to have their very own set of desires and fantasies. Being the submissive one or the dominant one is just one of it.
Over the years, acts of role-play and BDSM have been quite common in sexual acts. It is owing to the fact that people are now willing to explore newer ways of making things pleasing and sensual. The acts under the genre of BDSM are specially associated with enhancement of sexual pleasures in an unconventional manner. It has been finding its way to modern households, especially among the new generation couples that are more than intrigued on exploring their intimate fantasies.

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